Independent...
Many older people are active, and value the independence of their own home. They are often the backbone of their local community. Be conscious of this and respectful of their wishes. This does not mean that they will not be grateful for your company or help: It does mean that how you approach them or make your offer may be an important factor in how they see you and whether they let you help.

Vulnerable...
Some older people are vulnerable, live alone or are physically disabled. Though they really need help some may even resent a visit. Respect their feelings and be skilful in trying to build a relationship. Maybe they will be more open to an approach from someone of the same sex, someone of their own age-group, or the relative of a friend of theirs. If you feel that they are at risk, and they will not let you or anybody else help them, contact ALONE or the social services.

At Risk...
Sometimes older people are at risk of burglary, intimidation and accidents in the home. Your older neighbours may suffer because of inadequate heating or insulation. They may neglect their diet because they find it difficult to get to the shops.

Be a Good Neighbour...
A good neighbour will be able to give a lot of support and care to their older neighbour. An aware neighbour can be at hand very quickly in the case of an emergency. Don’t leave it to others. They may have left it to you.

Company and a helping hand…
Older people may like to have a chat and reminisce about the past. Be aware of your older neighbour's needs. A kindly offered helping hand won’t go astray:
o mow the lawn
o clean the windows
o do the shopping.

Distress Signals...
Finally, please keep a look out for distress signals:
o Newspapers or post still in the letter box.
o Curtains drawn all day, no lights on in the evening.
These signs could mean that something is wrong and needs to be checked. If you get no reply to your call, dial 999 and alert the Gardaí.